
No greater love
“Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.” (Proverbs 3:3)
“It’s hard to leave,” David said on the day he stopped by my house on his way back to Florida to begin rebuilding the home of a couple who lost everything after Hurricane Ian in September 2022. I will never forget those words. We had only known each other for a few days at the time, but we had already bonded, as I had with my entire Samaritan’s Purse (SP) team, having spent the previous week serving together for God’s glory.

There was no shortage of help needed for those who had lost everything after this catastrophic Category 4 storm barreled into the state, with 150 mph winds, 10 inches of rain, and a 7.21-foot storm surge. More impactful than the cleanup we provided was the love we shared with those who were feeling hurt and helpless after realizing how much they’d lost in the storm. Our reminder that they were not alone but rather loved by God was precisely the help and hope they needed to press onward into an unknown future.

Following this week of service to share God’s love, David visited me on his way home to Virginia Beach. I chronicled his request to do so in my blog entitled “I’ve been looking for you.”
We had initially planned for David to stop again on his journey back to Florida. I had promised to show him around my coastal town, followed by a homemade dinner together before he continued on his way. I made lasagna for the occasion and had envisioned something significant happening on that day.
Instead, David sent me a text the night before telling me he couldn’t make it. He was finishing a remodeling job back at home, which was taking longer than expected. Despite his apologies, I was incredibly disappointed that we wouldn’t be able to spend any time together.
More than that, I felt like this change of plans was God’s way of protecting me, preventing me from getting too attached to someone I barely knew when I’d spent the last ten years of my life defending my heart from men who were not what they appeared to be. I didn’t want to be involved in another relationship. It was just God and me then – and that’s exactly how I wanted it to be.
Still, I remember the great sense of disappointment that surprised me when I learned my Sunday plans with David weren’t going to happen. I cried my eyes out when I received that message. My response didn’t make sense to me. I was determined not to let my relationship with David be anything more than a Christian friendship – and yet, I was crushed to learn that my first afternoon out in ten years, this one pseudo “date” had gone by the wayside.
And then I thanked God. Surely, I thought, my Heavenly Father prevented me from any further hurt by reminding me to keep my walls up and my expectations down.
Rather than let David know of my disappointment, I told him not to worry about it. I assured him that I understood and wished him well on the rest of his venture.
It was then that David asked if he could still stop on his way back to Florida. “Mondays are extremely busy for me,” I retorted. “If you want to stop, I’ll be happy to give you a snack and a sandwich for the rest of your journey, but I won’t be able to talk long.”
And so, that’s how our visit went. I was kind but somewhat guarded when David and his sweet kitty, Bo, stopped at my house late Monday morning. I gave David an egg sandwich for his snack and a German sweet-bologna sandwich for the rest of his drive into Florida. We chatted for a bit – and then he gave me Bo to hold.

“His nails are really long,” I said. “Would you like me to trim them?”
After David agreed, I took Bo to my screen porch, where I brushed his fur and gave him a quick manicure, all the while talking to the kitty more than I was to David.
David sat in an adjacent chair, taking it all in, then asked if he could take a photo of Bo and me to remember the visit. “Of course,” I said as he captured one of my all-time favorite pictures of me holding this sweet kitty.
We exchanged a few more niceties, then David got the hint that it was time to go.
As I walked David to his SUV, he put Bo back inside, then stretched out his arms for a good-bye hug. “It’s going to be hard to leave,” David said as he opened the car door, sat down, and smiled up to me from inside.
I remember being shocked at his chosen turn of phrase, even thinking at the time, “Surely, he doesn’t mean that the way it sounds.”
But he did. And he still does. It’s a gift that never stops giving. David and I frequently repeat this phrase as he runs to the store or leaves the house to run errands. “Is it going to be hard to leave?” I will ask. “It always is,” he’ll respond.

And I always smile at the love I feel when I think of all God gave me in this man. From a simple act of surrendering to God by going to Florida came the gift of a soulmate that I will never take for granted.
God loves us like this. He loves us so much that He will stand at the door, waiting for us to open it and welcome him in. His love is patient, kind, compassionate, and all-knowing yet wholly forgiving. We are to model our compassion for others after the kind of devotion God detailed for us in Corinthians.
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
That’s the kind of love that David and I share. There is nothing greater than the magnanimous affection our Creator has for us. David and I entwine ourselves in it as we pray before meals, read the Bible together every night, and constantly, fervently, continuously give thanks to our Heavenly Father for His sustaining grace, strength, and provision. We would be nothing without our Creator’s love. We would be nothing without Him – in our lives and in our marriage.
“I could’ve stood in that driveway all day holding you. I never wanted to let go,” David reminded me as we embraced each other earlier today.
That’s how God feels about us, as well. He is always holding us. His love “always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
I am blessed to be loved like that – not just by David, but by my Creator. There is nothing greater on earth.





















































